The word 'gloaming' was first recorded somewhere around the year of 1000 from Scotland! At that time, it was 'glomung' from the Scottish 'glom' which means twilight. It's used now as then to describe that time of night when the world seems to 'hang' for that hour just before sunset. It's a special time when all the beauty that's tucked away in secret comes to vibrant life. As if to say - "I'm still here, but not for long" or "Don't forget me when I'm gone".
When we speak of the Gloaming Hour of Life, we're talking about those Olden Golden years that, if we're lucky enough - we'll live long enough to see.
Sure, we all start out as pups, but eventually we're going to get older, and older, until one day we'll enter into our own personal 'GLOAMING HOUR'.
The Gloaming Hour of the day is one of Ambrr's favorite times of the day.
She tells me that the colors change suddenly...producing colors unnoticed during the sunlit hours. Blades of grass or leaves on distant trees take on a whole new look. She says the golds and yellows and greens and blues all of a sudden come in different shades and become all the more vivid...as if gracing us with one last chance to appreciate the beauty.
That's 'the Gloaming Hour'.
Perhaps as we enter into our own 'Gloaming', the same is true.
Perhaps then everything becomes all the more vivid and beautiful and priceless. As if, for one last time, we're awarded the chance to truly appreciate all that otherwise has gone unnoticed.
That's what the Gaelic peoples say and that's what Ambrr believes.
Maybe they're onto something here.
I know...it's something we all KNOW will come around, yet we're always shocked to see it when it gets here. Humans aren't any different - believe me. Listen to them. They think they're going to stay young forever! It's not until we all, humans and animals, experience 'the gloaming' that we learn the truth of life. So I guess we might just as well admit it...we have more in common with these Humans than we may wish to admit in public!
Now, we all know dogs younger than us. We all know dogs older than us. Right now we're going to talk about the older ones...the ones who are near or have reached their Prime of Life. Unfortunately, during this time of life's cycle, there may be some un-pleasantries to put up with. That's the purpose for this page...to learn what might be in store for us...in our GOLDEN YEARS!
There are some things we all should understand about aging. One thing is that our bodies get a little tired as the years pass. It seems that overnight, they start acting as if they have a mind all their own and won't cooperate with what we want them to do. It can be frustrating. It can be frightening.
That's why we need to study this process and how if effects our lives BEFORE we're actually there!The first thing most dogs notice is that they start slowing down a bit. Everything slows down...getting up...lying down...walking...climbing steps...eating...pretty much everything but sleeping!
Sleeping seems to come a little quicker and a whole lot easier!
There might be other reasons for 'slowing down'. Don't just assume that it's the aging process making YOU slow a bit. Get to your Vet and see if there's something else causing the problem. You might just be surprised to know that you're not aging at all...you might just have a 'bug' that needs some attention!
Ahh....these 'Golden Years'...this 'Prime of Life'...
This time...'our Gloaming'....
It's not something to fear.
But it's certainly something to prepare for the right way!
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WHEN THE WORD "EXPRESSING" TAKES ON A WHOLE NEW MEANING...
One thing that seems to really bother the 'older generation' a lot is when the 'pipes' quit working on their own. It happens sometimes. It's like they just get tired and worn out!
I'm talking about the bladder and the bowel here...for those young pups who haven't got a clue!
There can be lots of reasons why this happens - AND you don't even have to be....'that mature'...for it to happen, so it might do all you pups out there some good to read up on this!
I found a couple of websites that are pretty interesting and explain rather straight forward how to manually 'express' us when it's necessary. We've got to get our humans to read up so they understand the 'WHYs' and the 'HOW TOs' BEFORE it's necessary!
Of course, one of my favorite sites is Handicapped Pets - so I'll of course include THEIR site for you. It's got pictures and everything and I think it's really easy to follow.
Here's what THEY say:
http://www.handicappedpets.com/Articles/express.htm
Now there's another site that I like too - and it also describes the condition of INCONTINENCE (that's what they call it when we can't control our bladder or bowels). So after you check out Handicapped Pets - check out this site too:
http://www.ourdds.org/work_edu_bladder.html
I've got my share of problems - being deaf and blind DOES present some...interesting...situations at times. And it's easy sometimes to get a little 'down and out' over what can be a constant struggle. But that's when you have to stand up on those PAWs that God gave ya, and BARK as loud as you can - and laugh in the face of hardship and stay determined to overcome WHATEVER comes our way!
After all - we're DOGS - CANINES - we're the best there is, right?
RIGHT!
And we can show anybody or anything that we're strong and dedicated and determined - and we SHALL overcome!
So all you out there who are a little upset over losing some control of YOUR bladder and/or bowel - just think of it this way: YOU OUTLASTED THEM!
YOU WON!
And let your humans do for you what is necessary. I know - it's a tad bit awkward and a great deal embarrassing too, but remember - these people love you! Nothing is too big a deal for them when it comes to you - YOU ARE THEIR SOULS and they'll do for you whatever they can. It's just some things we all have to adjust to now and then in life - and this is just one of them.
OK - enough about this - you get the point.
GET EDUCATED.
GET YOUR HUMANS EDUCATED.
GET PAST THE EMBARRASSMENT.
GET YOUR 'BUSINESS' DONE ANY WAY YOU CAN!
And don't forget to be sure to see your Vet. He/She will know (usually) what the problem is and what to do about it. Never just ASSUME that incontinence is caused by something you haven't been tested for. GET EXAMINED FIRST.
I hope this helps some of you out - young and old - four legged and two legged....and yes....even those with canes!
Gabe
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OUR Version of ALTZHEIMER'S: Cognitive Dysfunction Syndrome
"Have you noticed changes in your aging dog's zest for life? Has she stopped greeting you at the door? Has he forgotten once familiar old tricks or stopped responding to even basic commands? Many dog owners attribute changes like this to normal aging, but personality changes and forgetful behavior is not a normal part of dogs growing old.
Dogs are living longer than they did in the past, due to better nutrition, advancements in preventative health care, and access to medical procedures that were once available only to humans. Loving, responsible pet owners help too. Dogs are increasingly cared for like family and many people are willing to spend whatever it takes to keep their pets alive and healthy as long as possible."
written by: Sandy Moyer
BellaOnline's Dogs Editor
You have to admit - we DO strangely resemble our human counterparts at times. Certain characteristics...moodiness...expressions...diet...appreciation for a nice comfy chair...These things we share as 'commons' with our humans. But there's other things that connect us to one another - and through understanding ONE species...we can understand the other.
One example is this thing called Alzheimer's Disease.
Humans and Dogs both age - that's a given. But as we do so, there's certain conditions that may arise - conditions such as cognitive impairment. The specialists have worked hard and long trying to unravel the mysteries surrounding Alzheimer's, and they've come up with a few things that might better explain this heartbreaking disease. Here's what they say:
"...humans and animals have the same sort of degenerative brain lesions. With age, dogs, like humans, naturally accumulate deposits of beta amyloid, a nerve-damaging protein, in the brain. This starch-like protein builds up, becomes waxy, and forms plaque. As plaque builds up, it clogs the brain and inhibits the transmission of signals from the brain. In both Alzheimer's and Canine Cognitive Dysfunction, excessive senile plaque leads to more severe cognitive impairment."
Sometimes the changes occur in a slow fashion and maybe their not noticed or paid much attention to until they become really obvious..to US and to our humans. Doctors say that there are certain signs that MIGHT suggest we're suffering from 'cognitive impairment'. Here's the list of signs as seen on http://www.bellaonline.com/articles/art25417.asp.
These changes in behavior could be signs of Canine Cognitive Dysfunction....
Sometimes a disoriented dog....Stops responding to his name or Forgets once familiar tricks or May stop responding to even basic commands or No longer remembers routines or Stares blankly into space or at walls or Gets stuck in corners, under furniture or behind furniture or Engages in repetitive and compulsive disorders or Paces or wanders aimlessly or Compulsively walks in circles... around a table or from room to room or appears lost or confused, even in familiar surroundings. Dogs who knew exactly where their yard ended and never crossed the line, wander past the normal boundaries, becoming lost and confused, easily agitated and/or barks for no reason.
They say that some signs that 'something's just not right' can be reveled through our interactions with people in general. You know that we're usually just thrilled to no end by visitors, for example. Well, with this condition, that seems to change a bit.
Again, I'm going to rely on the list that appears on the Bella On Line website:
Dogs who experience decreased interaction with people....
No longer greet visitors or even family members
No longer try to get attention
No longer care about being petted
They walk away even when being petted and receiving affection.
At other times, it might just be something like sleeping patterns. We might end up sleeping away the whole day and night - OR - we can't seem to relax enough to sleep at all. Either way, something's wrong.
Dogs who experience changes in sleep patterns...
Sleep more during the day
Sleep less at night
May wander around instead of sleeping
Now being blind and deaf, and living in a house that sits on 'stilts' of sorts - I wasn't able to go up and down the stairs that lead to the yard until just a about a year ago when we finally got a fensed in yard! Still, I'm there all day, can't 'take myself out', so - my human (Karen) has given me a designated area on the floor for me to...you know....do my 'business'.
She has plastic sheets down to protect the carpet and then covers it with old sheets and rubber-backed rugs. Yeah, my laundry gets done at least once a day - depending on how things go. When HANDs lived here with us, she could take care of the laundry and/or let me out when it wass necessary. But now that she's moved back to her home-state of OHIO, I'm here all day without a choice but to use the 'designated area'.
At any rate, I'm lucky enough to be able to control things and use the proper area for...it. But as we dogs get a little older - it might be impossible to control things like that. It's frustrating, I'm sure, for those who experience the incontinence. But it MIGHT be a sign of Alzheimer's, so be sure to get checked out if you're experiencing problems in that area!
Dogs with CDS sometimes forget housetraining...
They have "accidents" indoors... even soon after being outside
They stop "asking" to go out
They seem to forget the reason for going outdoors
Alzheimer’s Disease is a frightening possibility - and surely not anything to look forward to having. Both Animals and Humans can benefit from further tests and scientific research into this disease. HANDS was telling me that once she suffered a 'pre-stroke' and was at the doctor's office. He was sending HANDS to the hospital for some further tests, and the doctor said to her: "if you notice you're slurring your words or can't remember who you are or anything, be sure to call me right away".
Well, at the time (and in her condition), HANDS thought that made total sense. But while at the hospital, she was telling a friend what the doctor had said and HE said: "If you don't know who YOU are, how are you expected to know who HE is? This was a test and YOU FAILED! That's why we're here now for more tests!"
I guess they had quite a laugh over it all, and HANDS recovered...I guess....with little if any residual problems. (As far as SHE knows, anyway!)
Be sure to check out some websites that deal with the aging process of the Canine. You'll find all sorts of information that can and probably will be very useful in time. Here are a few URLs I've found...with the help of HANDS, of course.
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